But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another.
Paul wrote this letter to the young church in Thessalonica, a city in what is now northern Greece. These were new believers who had embraced the faith under difficult circumstances, and Paul had a deep affection for them. Here he says something remarkable: he doesn't need to instruct them about love for fellow believers, because God himself has already taught them. This is a reference to what the New Testament describes as the Holy Spirit's work — an inner, experiential knowledge of love that comes from encountering God's own love firsthand. It's both a genuine compliment and a profound observation: love among believers isn't produced by following rules, it grows from being loved by God.
God, thank You for being the One who taught me what love actually looks like — not through rules, but by loving me first. Help me not just carry that knowledge around but live it today, especially in the places where it's inconvenient and costs me something. Amen.
There's something quietly stunning in what Paul says here. He's writing a letter, presumably to teach and guide, and then essentially says: "You don't need me for this one. God already handled it." Not taught through a curriculum or a sermon series. Taught by God. The implication is that if you have genuinely encountered divine love — the kind that received you when you were difficult, that forgave you when you didn't deserve it, that showed up at 3 AM when no one else did — then you already know, somewhere deep, what love looks like. It got inside you. But Paul doesn't leave it there. He says: do this more and more. Even God-taught love needs room to grow. It isn't automatic or self-sustaining. Love is a practice you return to — on the ordinary Tuesday when your roommate leaves dishes in the sink, when a friend drops the ball at exactly the wrong moment, when someone at church says something that lands badly and you have to decide what to do with it. You already know how to love. The question is whether you'll keep showing up to practice it.
What do you think Paul means by being 'taught by God' to love — how is that different from simply knowing facts about love or having been raised to be kind?
Where in your life does love for other people come most naturally right now — and where does it feel like a genuine effort that you have to choose?
Is it possible to grow up in church, know a lot about love, and still not have been 'taught by God' in the way Paul describes? What would be the difference between those two people?
Think of a relationship in your life where love has become harder or colder over time — what would it look like to love that person 'more and more' this week, specifically?
If the capacity for this kind of love has already been placed in you by God, what is one thing you could do today to act on it rather than just feel it or think about it?
And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.
1 Peter 4:8
Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love.
Revelation 2:4
And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment;
Philippians 1:9
For this is the message that ye heard from the beginning, that we should love one another.
1 John 3:11
Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
1 John 4:7
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
Romans 12:10
A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
John 13:34
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
Matthew 25:40
Now concerning brotherly love, you have no need for anyone to write you, for you have been [personally] taught by God to love one another [that is, to have an unselfish concern for others and to do things for their benefit].
AMP
Now concerning brotherly love you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another,
ESV
Now as to the love of the brethren, you have no need for [anyone] to write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another;
NASB
Now about brotherly love we do not need to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other.
NIV
But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another;
NKJV
But we don’t need to write to you about the importance of loving each other, for God himself has taught you to love one another.
NLT
Regarding life together and getting along with each other, you don't need me to tell you what to do. You're God-taught in these matters. Just love one another!
MSG