For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica; Crescens to Galatia, Titus unto Dalmatia.
The apostle Paul wrote this letter to his close friend and ministry partner Timothy near the very end of Paul's life — most likely while imprisoned in Rome and awaiting execution for his faith. Demas had been one of Paul's traveling companions and is mentioned warmly by name in two earlier letters as a fellow worker in the gospel. But here, Paul reports with quiet devastation that Demas chose to leave, drawn back to "this world" — a phrase that suggests the pull of comfort, safety, and a normal life free from the mounting cost of standing with Paul. Paul also mentions Crescens and Titus, who left for mission work in other regions. The contrast is subtle but sharp: some left to serve, one left to save himself.
God, I do not want to be someone who loves comfort more than I love you — or the people you have placed in my life. When the easier road appears and the cost of staying rises, give me the courage not to drift. Keep my love honest and my heart tethered to what truly matters. Amen.
"He loved this world." Four words that describe one of the quietest exits in the New Testament. Demas did not renounce his faith in a dramatic speech. He did not become a villain. He just chose something else — probably something that looked entirely reasonable. A life without prison visits. A future you could actually plan. And then he left Paul alone during the hardest chapter of Paul's life, and Paul wrote it down the way you write down a fact you have already made peace with. What is unsettling about Demas is not the drama — it is the normalcy. He did not fall spectacularly. He drifted practically. And if you have been around faith long enough, you have seen it: the person who was once all-in who quietly, gradually chose Thessalonica. Maybe you have had your own version — a moment when the cost climbed just high enough and something familiar beckoned. The invitation here is not guilt. It is honesty. What are you choosing, slowly and quietly, and what is that choice actually costing the people around you?
What do you think Paul meant when he said Demas loved 'this world' — what might that have looked like in Demas's daily, practical choices?
Can you think of a time when comfort or self-preservation pulled you away from something or someone you knew you should have stayed with?
Is there a meaningful difference between leaving for a mission — the way Crescens or Titus did — and leaving for yourself, the way Demas did? How do you tell those apart in your own decisions?
How does someone's quiet departure — from a friendship, a community, or a shared commitment — affect the people they leave behind, and how might you be more attentive to that in your own relationships?
What is one thing you are currently tempted to quietly walk away from because the cost feels too high? What would choosing to stay actually require of you this week?
No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.
2 Timothy 2:4
He also that received seed among the thorns is he that heareth the word; and the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful.
Matthew 13:22
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
1 John 2:16
And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back , is fit for the kingdom of God.
Luke 9:62
No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.
Matthew 6:24
For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
1 Timothy 6:10
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
1 John 2:15
From that time many of his disciples went back , and walked no more with him.
John 6:66
for Demas, having loved [the pleasures of] this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica; Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia.
AMP
For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica. Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia.
ESV
for Demas, having loved this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica; Crescens [has gone] to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia.
NASB
for Demas, because he loved this world, has deserted me and has gone to Thessalonica. Crescens has gone to Galatia, and Titus to Dalmatia.
NIV
for Demas has forsaken me, having loved this present world, and has departed for Thessalonica—Crescens for Galatia, Titus for Dalmatia.
NKJV
Demas has deserted me because he loves the things of this life and has gone to Thessalonica. Crescens has gone to Galatia, and Titus has gone to Dalmatia.
NLT
Demas, chasing fads, went off to Thessalonica and left me here. Crescens is in Galatia province, Titus in Dalmatia.
MSG