Who also declared unto us your love in the Spirit.
Paul is writing a letter to a young church in the city of Colossae, in what is now western Turkey. He has never visited this church himself — it was founded by a man named Epaphras. Epaphras has since traveled to where Paul is and given him a personal report on how the community is doing. This brief verse records one detail from that report: Epaphras told Paul about the love these believers have — and specifically that it is love 'in the Spirit,' meaning it is a love produced and sustained by the Holy Spirit, not just natural human warmth or group loyalty. Even in a short verse, Paul is saying that love is the evidence Epaphras led with.
Holy Spirit, grow love in me that I couldn't manufacture on my own — the kind that surprises people and quietly points them toward you. Let someone see it this week and sense it came from somewhere deeper than me. Amen.
Imagine someone traveling hundreds of miles and, when they finally arrive, the first thing they say is: 'I have to tell you about how much these people love each other.' That's essentially what Epaphras did. He crossed a long stretch of the ancient world to find Paul, and his report wasn't about the church's impressive teaching or their numbers. It was about their love — and he was specific enough to name it as something the Holy Spirit had grown in them. Not community spirit. Not social warmth. Something cultivated from the inside out, the kind that doesn't come naturally when people are under pressure or rubbing up against each other's quirks. So here's the question worth carrying into the week: if someone who knew you well was asked to summarize you to a stranger, would love show up in the first sentence? Not perfect love — nobody's offering that. But the kind that's visibly different from the baseline, the kind that makes people slightly curious about where it comes from. That love doesn't get manufactured by trying harder. It gets tended, quietly, by staying close to the Spirit. What does that look like for you on an ordinary Tuesday?
Why do you think Epaphras specifically led with love when reporting back to Paul — what does that choice tell you about what he valued most in a church?
What is the difference, practically speaking, between love that comes from the Spirit and love that is just good manners, shared history, or community habit?
Is 'love' a reliable sign of spiritual health in a person or a community? What are its limits as a measure — can love be present but still miss the mark somehow?
Who in your life plays the role Epaphras played — someone who carries good news about people, who connects others and builds bridges? How do you treat that person?
What is one specific, concrete way you could let Spirit-generated love become visible to someone this week — something that would feel like more than politeness?
And the spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD;
Isaiah 11:2
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
2 Timothy 1:7
Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently:
1 Peter 1:22
And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.
Romans 5:5
And I myself also am persuaded of you, my brethren, that ye also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another.
Romans 15:14
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Galatians 5:22
And hath put all things under his feet, and gave him to be the head over all things to the church,
Ephesians 1:22
For I rejoiced greatly, when the brethren came and testified of the truth that is in thee, even as thou walkest in the truth.
3 John 1:3
and he also has told us of your love [well-grounded and nurtured] in the [Holy] Spirit.
AMP
and has made known to us your love in the Spirit.
ESV
and he also informed us of your love in the Spirit.
NASB
and who also told us of your love in the Spirit.
NIV
who also declared to us your love in the Spirit.
NKJV
He has told us about the love for others that the Holy Spirit has given you.
NLT
He's the one who told us how thoroughly love had been worked into your lives by the Spirit.
MSG