These things have I spoken unto you, that ye should not be offended.
This verse comes from what's called Jesus' "Farewell Discourse" — a long conversation Jesus has with his disciples the night before his arrest and crucifixion. He knows what's coming: betrayal, trial, death. He also knows his followers are about to face something that will shake them to the core. The phrase "go astray" can also be translated "stumble" or "fall away" — the original Greek word carries the idea of being so shocked or destabilized that you abandon what you believe. Jesus is essentially saying: I'm telling you the hard things now so that when they happen, you won't lose your footing.
Jesus, thank you for not protecting me from the truth. You warned your disciples because you loved them, and you do the same for me. When things unravel and I feel blindsided, remind me that none of this surprised you — and that you're still here. Amen.
There's a strange kind of love in a warning. When someone who knows what's coming tells you before it arrives, that's not cruelty — it's care. A doctor who levels with you about a hard diagnosis isn't being unkind. A friend who says "this is going to be harder than you think" isn't being pessimistic. They're giving you something to hold onto when the ground shifts. Jesus did that here. He didn't promise his disciples smooth sailing. He told them the truth — that they'd face rejection, confusion, grief — because he didn't want them blindsided and unmoored. He still does this. Scripture is full of honest warnings not to frighten us but to anchor us: you will have trouble in this world; not everyone will welcome what you believe; following me costs something. When those moments come — and they do come — you can remember that none of it caught Jesus off guard. He saw it coming and loved you anyway. That's not a small thing.
What does it tell us about Jesus' character that he prepares his disciples for hardship rather than simply promising them protection?
Think of a time when you were spiritually caught off guard by a hard situation. How did it affect your faith?
Is there something in your faith right now that you're finding difficult to hold onto? What would it mean to believe Jesus already knew this was coming for you?
How might being honest with someone you love — telling them a hard truth ahead of time — be an act of care rather than cruelty?
What is one thing you could do to prepare your heart for difficulty before it arrives, rather than trying to hold on after the fact?
Behold, I have told you before.
Matthew 24:25
Then saith Jesus unto them, All ye shall be offended because of me this night: for it is written, I will smite the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock shall be scattered abroad.
Matthew 26:31
Peter answered and said unto him, Though all men shall be offended because of thee, yet will I never be offended.
Matthew 26:33
And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.
1 Peter 2:8
If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
John 15:18
Confirming the souls of the disciples, and exhorting them to continue in the faith, and that we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God.
Acts 14:22
What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops.
Matthew 10:27
And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another.
Matthew 24:10
"I have told you these things so that you will not stumble or be caught off guard and fall away.
AMP
“I have said all these things to you to keep you from falling away.
ESV
'These things I have spoken to you so that you may be kept from stumbling.
NASB
“All this I have told you so that you will not go astray.
NIV
“These things I have spoken to you, that you should not be made to stumble.
NKJV
“I have told you these things so that you won’t abandon your faith.
NLT
"I've told you these things to prepare you for rough times ahead.
MSG