And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word.
This verse comes from a story about two sisters — Mary and Martha — who welcomed Jesus into their home in Bethany. While Martha scrambled to prepare food and care for guests (the expected role for women in that culture), Mary did something quietly countercultural: she sat at Jesus's feet and listened. Sitting at a teacher's feet was the posture of a disciple — a student. In that era, women were rarely included in that kind of formal learning. Mary's choice to listen rather than serve was, to many observers, the wrong choice — but Jesus would soon say it was the right one.
Lord, quiet the part of me that always needs to be doing. Teach me to sit still long enough to actually hear you. Like Mary, help me choose presence over productivity when it matters most. Amen.
Think about the last time you stopped — really stopped — not to sleep, not to scroll, but to listen. Most of us are better at doing than receiving. Martha's busyness wasn't bad; someone had to cook. But there's a subtle trap in being indispensable, in the identity we quietly build around our usefulness. Mary chose to be a student instead of a servant in that moment, and that quiet act of sitting was actually the harder thing to do. You probably have a Martha instinct somewhere in you — the urge to stay useful, to justify your presence by what you produce. But what would it look like to pull up a chair, metaphorically, and just listen today? Not to plan your response, not to half-listen while making dinner, but to genuinely sit with what God might be saying? Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is nothing at all — except pay attention.
What do you think the difference is between serving God and listening to God — and is it possible to genuinely do both at the same time?
When do you find it hardest to slow down and simply be present with God — what tends to pull you away?
Is there a danger in using busyness — even religious busyness — as a way to avoid deeper spiritual engagement? What might that pattern look like in your own life?
How does your relationship with the people around you change when you actually listen to them, rather than quietly preparing your response while they speak?
What is one practical way you could create space this week to simply listen — to God, to someone you love, or to your own soul?
Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard , very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment.
John 12:3
Then Jesus turned, and saw them following, and saith unto them, What seek ye? They said unto him, Rabbi, (which is to say, being interpreted, Master,) where dwellest thou?
John 1:38
He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given.
Matthew 13:11
But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
1 Corinthians 7:32
Now a certain man was sick, named Lazarus, of Bethany, the town of Mary and her sister Martha.
John 11:1
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
Matthew 11:29
The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge.
Proverbs 18:15
She had a sister named Mary, who seated herself at the Lord's feet and was continually listening to His teaching.
AMP
And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching.
ESV
She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord's feet, listening to His word.
NASB
She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said.
NIV
And she had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word.
NKJV
Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what he taught.
NLT
She had a sister, Mary, who sat before the Master, hanging on every word he said.
MSG