My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.
The book of Proverbs is framed as a father passing hard-won wisdom to his son — "my son" is the typical address throughout the book, reflecting an ancient tradition of teaching the next generation how to navigate life well. This verse opens a longer warning about being recruited into wrongdoing by people who make it sound appealing or profitable. The key word is "entice" — not forced, not coerced, but attracted. The invitation to go wrong rarely looks like danger; it usually looks like opportunity, belonging, or excitement. The father's counsel is direct and uncomplicated: simply do not give in.
Father, give me the ability to recognize the moment when I'm being drawn somewhere I shouldn't go — before the rationalizations start. Help me trust that early instinct, and give me the strength not to give in. Amen.
Temptation rarely announces itself. It doesn't show up wearing a warning label. It shows up wearing a friend's face, or a group chat invitation, or a deal that seems too good to examine too closely. The word "entice" is doing a lot of honest work here — it implies that you're drawn, not dragged. Most of us don't stumble into harmful things against our will. We walk toward them, one small step at a time, because someone made it look worth it. The instruction is almost disarmingly simple: do not give in. No elaborate decision tree. No lengthy negotiation with yourself about whether this particular situation technically qualifies as the kind of thing the warning is about. There is a clarity available to you before the rationalizations kick in — a first instinct, a quiet hesitation, something that feels off before your mind begins constructing reasons why it's probably fine. Proverbs trusts that you already know, on some level, when something is pulling you somewhere you shouldn't go. Learning to trust that early signal — before the talking yourself into it begins — is its own kind of wisdom.
Why do you think the writer frames this warning as a parent speaking to a child rather than as a rule or commandment? What does that relational framing communicate about the nature of wisdom?
Think of a time you were genuinely enticed into a decision you later regretted — what made it so appealing in the moment, and at what point did you first sense something was off?
This verse assumes you have the ability to recognize and resist enticement. But what about situations where the pull is genuinely overwhelming, or where refusing has real social or financial consequences? Is "don't give in" always sufficient guidance?
How do the people closest to you — your friendships, your community — make it easier or harder to hold your ground when something is drawing you in a harmful direction?
Is there a relationship or pattern in your life right now that you know is nudging you somewhere you shouldn't go? What is one concrete step you could take this week to create some distance from it?
He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
Proverbs 13:20
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
Psalms 1:1
Thou shalt not follow a multitude to do evil; neither shalt thou speak in a cause to decline after many to wrest judgment:
Exodus 23:2
Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men.
Proverbs 4:14
BETH. Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.
Psalms 119:9
And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
James 3:6
Be not ye therefore partakers with them.
Ephesians 5:7
And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
Ephesians 5:11
My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent.
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My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent.
ESV
My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent.
NASB
My son, if sinners entice you, do not give in to them.
NIV
My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent.
NKJV
My child, if sinners entice you, turn your back on them!
NLT
Dear friend, if bad companions tempt you, don't go along with them.
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