For I would that ye knew what great conflict I have for you, and for them at Laodicea, and for as many as have not seen my face in the flesh;
Paul — a first-century missionary who helped plant the church in Colossae — writes this letter while under house arrest in Rome. He has never physically met many of the people he is addressing, yet describes his concern for them using a Greek word closer to 'agonizing' than casual worry. The church at Laodicea was a neighboring city, and Paul carries both communities on his heart simultaneously. This verse offers a rare window into Paul's inner life — not triumphant or unflappable, but straining hard on behalf of others. His prayer and concern are presented not as a feeling but as a form of labor.
Father, expand the walls of my concern. Teach me to carry people I have never met with the same weight Paul did — not a burden that crushes, but love that costs something. Make my prayers more than a list. Make them a struggle. Amen.
Most of us reserve our deepest concern for people we have sat with, eaten with, known by name. Paul breaks that rule entirely. He is losing sleep — if prisoners sleep well — over people whose faces he has never seen and whose voices he has never heard. There is something almost irrational about it, the way love sometimes is. Who are the people beyond your circle that you carry? The struggling church across town you have never visited, the community facing a crisis you only read about, the stranger whose situation lodged in your chest and wouldn't leave? Paul's example quietly dismantles the assumption that real intercession requires proximity. It requires only willingness to struggle. This week, let one name — even a face you only imagine — become the subject of the kind of prayer that costs you something.
What do you think Paul's 'struggling' for people he had never met actually looked like day to day — what form did that take?
Is there someone you feel genuinely burdened for right now, even without a personal relationship with them? What does that burden feel like, and what have you done with it?
We tend to assume deep care requires a personal connection. Does this verse challenge that assumption, and what would it mean for how you pray if it does?
How might your church or community change if members regularly prayed with real effort for people in other cities, other backgrounds, other churches they have never visited?
What is one concrete way — in prayer or in action — you could extend your concern to someone completely outside your immediate circle this week?
Saying, I am Alpha and Omega, the first and the last: and, What thou seest, write in a book, and send it unto the seven churches which are in Asia; unto Ephesus, and unto Smyrna, and unto Pergamos, and unto Thyatira, and unto Sardis, and unto Philadelphia, and unto Laodicea.
Revelation 1:11
Whom having not seen , ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:
1 Peter 1:8
And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God;
Revelation 3:14
Whereunto I also labour, striving according to his working, which worketh in me mightily .
Colossians 1:29
And Jacob was left alone; and there wrestled a man with him until the breaking of the day.
Genesis 32:24
But if I live in the flesh, this is the fruit of my labour : yet what I shall choose I wot not.
Philippians 1:22
Who now rejoice in my sufferings for you, and fill up that which is behind of the afflictions of Christ in my flesh for his body's sake, which is the church:
Colossians 1:24
Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ, saluteth you, always labouring fervently for you in prayers, that ye may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God.
Colossians 4:12
For I want you to know how great a struggle I have for you and for those [believers] at Laodicea, and for all who [like yourselves] have never seen me face to face.
AMP
For I want you to know how great a struggle I have for you and for those at Laodicea and for all who have not seen me face to face,
ESV
For I want you to know how great a struggle I have on your behalf and for those who are at Laodicea, and for all those who have not personally seen my face,
NASB
I want you to know how much I am struggling for you and for those at Laodicea, and for all who have not met me personally.
NIV
For I want you to know what a great conflict I have for you and those in Laodicea, and for as many as have not seen my face in the flesh,
NKJV
I want you to know how much I have agonized for you and for the church at Laodicea, and for many other believers who have never met me personally.
NLT
I want you to realize that I continue to work as hard as I know how for you, and also for the Christians over at Laodicea. Not many of you have met me face-to-face, but that doesn't make any difference. Know that I'm on your side, right alongside you. You're not in this alone.
MSG