And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
Jesus is teaching his disciples about the practice of forgiveness. He sets a standard that sounds almost impossible: if someone sins against you seven times in a single day and comes back each time saying "I repent," forgive them — every single time. In Jewish culture, the number seven often represented completeness or totality, so Jesus isn't establishing a maximum of seven; he's removing the ceiling entirely. The context here assumes genuine repentance — the person is actually expressing remorse — and Jesus's point is that forgiveness must always follow, no matter how many times the cycle repeats.
God, forgiveness feels impossible some days — especially when the wound is still fresh or the pattern just keeps repeating. Give me grace that outlasts my hurt. Remind me how often you've forgiven me, and let that remembrance soften what's hardened in my heart. Amen.
Seven times before sundown. That's not a hypothetical — that's before lunch. Most of us carry a forgiveness budget, and we track the withdrawals carefully. We forgive once, maybe twice, and then we start calculating whether the person has earned another chance. Jesus's arithmetic here is brutal in the best possible way. It doesn't account for whether the person deserves it, or whether they'll slip again (they might), or whether forgiving somehow excuses the harm done. It just says: when repentance comes, forgiveness follows. Every time. This is one of those verses that's easy to nod at and genuinely hard to live. You might be thinking of someone specific right now — someone who's used up their quota with you, someone whose "I'm sorry" has started to sound like background noise. Jesus isn't asking you to pretend the hurt didn't happen, or to stay in something harmful. But he is asking something costly: to keep the door of forgiveness open, because you know what it's like to need that door open for you. Your own account with grace has seen some withdrawals too.
What do you think Jesus is really communicating with "seven times in a day" — is he setting a numerical limit, or making a larger point about the nature of forgiveness itself?
Is there someone in your life right now for whom forgiveness feels genuinely out of reach? What specifically makes it feel impossible?
What is the difference between forgiving someone and reconciling with them — and do you think you have to do both?
How does knowing that God extends limitless forgiveness to you change — or complicate — your willingness to forgive others?
What is one relationship where you could take a step toward forgiveness this week — even if it's just an internal decision to stop keeping score?
Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
Matthew 18:22
Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
Colossians 3:13
Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
Luke 6:37
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
Colossians 3:12
And be ye kind one to another , tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:32
Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
Matthew 18:15
Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
Romans 12:20
Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
Matthew 18:21
Even if he sins against you seven times a day, and returns to you seven times and says, 'I repent,' you must forgive him [that is, give up resentment and consider the offense recalled and annulled]."
AMP
and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.”
ESV
'And if he sins against you seven times a day, and returns to you seven times, saying, 'I repent,' forgive him.'
NASB
If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, ‘I repent,’ forgive him.”
NIV
And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.”
NKJV
Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive.”
NLT
Even if it's personal against you and repeated seven times through the day, and seven times he says, 'I'm sorry, I won't do it again,' forgive him."
MSG