Give to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy goods ask them not again.
This verse comes from Jesus's extended teaching often called the Sermon on the Plain, where he addresses a large crowd about how his followers should live. The surrounding verses describe loving enemies, blessing those who curse you, and doing good to people who treat you badly — a pattern of responding to hostility with generosity. In that context, Jesus gives this sweeping instruction: give to anyone who asks you, and if someone takes something from you, don't pursue getting it back. This teaching is deliberately extreme. Jesus is not establishing a legal code but painting a picture of a radically open-handed way of living — a default posture of generosity and non-grasping that runs against every self-protective instinct.
Jesus, this one is genuinely hard. Teach me to live with open hands — not naively, but trustingly. Where I've been guarded and calculating, soften me. Let generosity be my first instinct, not something I arrive at after weighing the risks. Amen.
Read this verse slowly and you'll feel the friction almost immediately. Give to everyone who asks. Not 'give wisely' or 'give when it's convenient' or 'give to those with legitimate needs.' Everyone. And if someone takes from you without even asking, don't chase it down. There are no asterisks here, no footnotes, no caveat system. This was radical in first-century Palestine and it has not gotten less radical in the centuries since. It presses hard on the instinct we all have to be fair, to protect what's ours, to make sure we're not taken advantage of. Here's what's worth sitting with: Jesus isn't calling you to be naive or reckless. He's describing a posture — the default orientation of your heart toward the people around you. The question isn't always 'could this person take advantage of me?' but 'am I living with open hands?' Real generosity will sometimes cost you. It will occasionally be misused. But the alternative — a life carefully guarded against every risk of being taken advantage of — is its own kind of impoverishment. You close yourself off to being used, yes. You also close yourself off to being used well. There is a version of you that trusts enough to give freely. This verse is an invitation to find that person.
Jesus says to give to 'everyone' who asks — how do you interpret that in real, practical terms? Is he describing a literal rule or a posture of the heart, and does that distinction matter?
Think of a time when you held back from helping someone because you weren't sure their need was genuine or deserving. What was driving that hesitation?
This teaching asks you to absorb loss — to not pursue what's been taken from you. How does that challenge the way our culture typically handles fairness, rights, and conflict?
How does your habit of generosity — or lack of it — shape the way people in your daily life actually experience you?
What is one specific situation in your life right now where this verse could directly challenge how you're responding to someone?
If there be among you a poor man of one of thy brethren within any of thy gates in thy land which the LORD thy God giveth thee, thou shalt not harden thine heart, nor shut thine hand from thy poor brother:
Deuteronomy 15:7
Thou shalt surely give him, and thine heart shall not be grieved when thou givest unto him: because that for this thing the LORD thy God shall bless thee in all thy works, and in all that thou puttest thine hand unto.
Deuteronomy 15:10
Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.
Matthew 5:42
The wicked borroweth, and payeth not again: but the righteous sheweth mercy, and giveth.
Psalms 37:21
Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
Luke 6:38
Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
Romans 12:21
But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.
Matthew 5:39
I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
Acts 20:35
Give to everyone who asks of you. Whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back.
AMP
Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back.
ESV
'Give to everyone who asks of you, and whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back.
NASB
Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back.
NIV
Give to everyone who asks of you. And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back.
NKJV
Give to anyone who asks; and when things are taken away from you, don’t try to get them back.
NLT
If someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously.
MSG