Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
Song of Solomon, also called Song of Songs, is a book of love poetry in the Bible — and one of its most surprising books. Likely written in the tradition of King Solomon, it celebrates romantic love between a man and a woman with vivid, unashamed language. This opening verse is spoken by a young woman longing for the man she loves. In the ancient world, wine was the symbol of celebration, abundance, and life's finest pleasures — the thing you brought out for a wedding, not an ordinary Tuesday. She is saying that being loved by him surpasses even that. Jewish and Christian readers across the centuries have also read this book as an allegory for God's passionate love for his people, with the longing here mirroring the love God has for those who belong to him.
God, thank you for making us creatures who long and love. Thank you that you are not distant or unmoved. Help me receive your love not as a doctrine I agree with but as something warm and real — and to offer that same warmth, without holding back, to the people around me. Amen.
It might genuinely catch you off guard to find this in the Bible. A woman, openly and without apology, expressing longing for her beloved — not spiritualized, not hedged. The church has historically been awkward about this book, treating it like an embarrassing relative you don't introduce at gatherings. But here it is, sitting right inside the canon of Scripture: human desire in its most honest form. Love that can't be reasoned into being calm. The Bible does not frame desire as something to be managed out of existence or confessed as weakness — it frames it, in its right place, as something that reflects the very character of God. Whether you're married, single, grieving a love that ended, or quietly hoping for one that hasn't started yet — this verse touches something that most of us carry but rarely name. The longing she expresses — for presence, for closeness, for *this specific person* — mirrors something deep in human experience. And for those who read it as allegory: this is the kind of love God is described as having for you. Not a detached, administrative affection that processes your prayers like a help desk ticket. Something that looks more like longing. That God would use the most intimate human metaphor available to describe his love for his people is worth sitting with longer than a moment.
Does it surprise you that poetry this openly romantic is included in the Bible? What does its presence there suggest about how God views human love, desire, and embodied experience?
How comfortable are you talking about desire — romantic or spiritual — in the context of your faith? Where does any discomfort or ease with that come from?
If God's love for people is sometimes described in terms of longing and desire rather than duty or obligation, how does that shift your understanding of what a relationship with Him could actually feel like?
How does the kind of love described here — passionate, expressive, actively seeking — challenge or inspire the way you show love to the most important people in your life?
Is there a relationship in your life — with God, a spouse, a close friend — where you've quietly settled for something more distant than you actually want? What would one honest step toward closeness look like?
And as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and blessed it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take, eat; this is my body.
Matthew 26:26
Ho, every one that thirsteth, come ye to the waters, and he that hath no money; come ye, buy, and eat; yea, come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.
Isaiah 55:1
And in this mountain shall the LORD of hosts make unto all people a feast of fat things, a feast of wines on the lees, of fat things full of marrow, of wines on the lees well refined.
Isaiah 25:6
How excellent is thy lovingkindness, O God! therefore the children of men put their trust under the shadow of thy wings.
Psalms 36:7
Wherefore do ye spend money for that which is not bread? and your labour for that which satisfieth not? hearken diligently unto me, and eat ye that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
Isaiah 55:2
Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee.
Psalms 63:3
How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than wine! and the smell of thine ointments than all spices!
Song of Solomon 4:10
And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
Luke 15:20
(The Shulammite Bride) "May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!" [Solomon arrives, she turns to him, saying,] "For your love is better than wine.
AMP
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! For your love is better than wine;
ESV
'May he kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! For your love is better than wine.
NASB
Beloved Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine.
NIV
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— For your love is better than wine.
NKJV
Kiss me and kiss me again, for your love is sweeter than wine.
NLT
Kiss me—full on the mouth! Yes! For your love is better than wine,
MSG